Random Insanity Alliance Forum, Mark V
Cactuar Zone => Random lnsanity => Topic started by: Damen on September 20, 2007, 08:30:55 pm
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First...her
I really like her for another reason. Really, I began to like her when I learned she was a Strong Christian believer. She's not like what C-Zom used to be, spouting religion everywhere, but when I ask for moral advice from her(and I rarely do), she can always give me a bible verse that sets me at ease. I am not going to explain to you all why I believe in the Lord and the Heavens as much as I do, because only one person knows that and I want to keep it that way.
Now, before you ask, here's some pics of her:
These pics have been up long enough.
A little more about me.
[19:42] Damen: You have the girls that are shallow as fuck
[19:42] Damen: And you have the girls that look beyond the appearance
[19:42] Damen: The girl I'm attracted to is the latter
[19:42] Damen: But, I feel as if I don't deserve her. Self-esteem issues, maybe
[19:42] Damen: In the 5th grade was when it was the worst, and I had outrageously horrible grades then. I passed, but just barely. I decided that, the only way I can cope in this world is by relying on my smarts to get me by. In the 6th grade, I managed to get one C at the end of my grade. At the end of the 7th, All A's. Now, in the 8th grade, most of my grades are exceeding 100% and I am in the Advanced English class.
[19:43] Damen: I began focusing on my smarts, for I knew that it would take nothing less than a miracle to get accepted otherwise
[19:43] Damen: I began forcing myself to go beyond to become smarter
[19:44] Damen: Every 9 weeks, we're supposed to take 4 tests over books we choose from the Library. I've decided that I can only read +400 page books for the tests
You can ask me all you want about her or myself.
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*Gets around to getting someone to pin that relationship advice topic I've been meaning to make*
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Hmm, she's pretty. And thanks for calling me out, I was quite the douchebag back then. The more I'm scalded for my ignorance the better.
Good luck with her bro.
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Thanks, I'm sure I'll need it.
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damen good job mate. im proud. here for ya always
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And shit Damen, I'll be damned if you don't remind me of me.
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I have a question: Are you friends? Or do you at least hang out sometimes or talk? Cause that gives you about 110% more of a chance then if she's just an acquiantence.
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We used to talk often on MSN. And, we were in a <snip> club together, her being the Leader.
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I have a question: Are you friends? Or do you at least hang out sometimes or talk? Cause that gives you about 110% more of a chance then if she's just an acquiantence.
This=key. not doing this=why I got rejected last Friday.
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Thats good Damen, thats real good. I had a chance to really be with the girl I like.
EEGGHTT. I blew it. Could've been co-writer for this newspaper were doing with her.
Go me, I didn't raise my hand. >_> -Punches self-
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Just those little things that piss you off.
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Ahuh.
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Also, Damen, you know what helps? And this is really weird but...
DARK MAGIC.
But seriously, just do this. Cause if you do know her well write down everything she likes, then everything you like.
It helps. >_> Do it, trust me.
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*casts Firaga on you*
I will later
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-Deflects with water shield lvl 5-
NUB, I GAWT MAH LIQUID NECKLACE AND BOOTZ OF SHIEL--Is sniped.
>_> But seriously, try it.
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MY WAND OF MAGICKZ DISPELZ EVRYTHING AND GIVEZ ME +5 REFLECT
I will, later.
The thing that I find especially attractive with this girl, is that I can actually imagine a future with her.
I mean, with all my other crushes...I can't say I can. She's different though.
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Hm. Thats good. @_@ You should really do something Damahn. Ask her out or something. If you think you can.
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I'm far away from asking her out.
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Yeah, I know. >_> Just thought I'd throw it out. Every guy has goals or dreams. What is the next step you want to at least try to take, even if that is far into the future? What do you want to do next?
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Why is it far off?
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Get to know her better.
Right now we're...
Who are you?|Acquaintance|Kinda-Sorta Friends|Friends|Buddies|Best Friend|Couple
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Middle is always good, cause there's a lot of ground to go either way. Seriously, just try and get to know her. Don't go out of your way, but talk to her, try and get an MSN/AIM, etc. Little things equal very big things.
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I agree
I can't get over how beautiful she looks...especially in those pictures
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Yup. @_@ Thats another reason to go after her. However, as I can almost guarantee you are, I prefer personality over looks.
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Of course.
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But still, looks do help. Girl I like is... freaking hot. >_> Which doesn't help in some ways.
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If you don't want people saying her name, then why would you post a topic about her? I understand anonymousness and such, but isn't this a backwards way of doing it?
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Heh.
Hot...in my opinion, is a derogatory term for her.
So, how's your relationship troubles?
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If you don't want people saying her name, then why would you post a topic about her? I understand anonymousness and such, but isn't this a backwards way of doing it?
I don't want someone to post her name because I do not want someone to begin to harass her, and I know some users on here will do it. I made a topic about her because I feel the need to talk about her, for some reason.
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Actually, I use the term hot to my own tastes. Hot, to me, is a cute, nice, and good looking. Not 90 pounds, blonde and heavyset. Blehk.
I'm probably on the second rung in your meter you made. I've known her for a long time, but we don't talk all that much. When we do though its normal, non forced. I just don't talk to her much. She has no AIM or MSN or email, and that doesn't help.
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I has no AIM or MSN or email
fix'd
Well, I can tell you some advice but everything I can tell you you've already told me. >.>
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Neither does she. >_> Fixed.
I know advice, but I'm just shy and think about the negatives too much. I could just ask her to talk sometime or hang out, and I'm 70% sure she'd say yes, but I'm too shy.
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I'm exactly the same way... I'm a pretty shy person, and I don't exactly think positive. The only thing people like us have to do is to get over that fact, and just go for it!
Trust me, it might be tough or a bit awkward to ask to hang out or something like that, but there are def plusses to just going for it:
A ) If she likes you, she'll think that you being nervous is adorable
B ) If she likes you, she'll say yes and everyone and their mother will be happy. Or just you two. Because you're hanging out. Together.
C ) A nice confidence booster
Just believe in yourself!
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In my experience, I always showed the girl who I was. That is the most vital thing for me to remember. I'm not sure I agree with the advice about writing down things she likes. When I am trying to develop a relationship, I ask the girl things about her. I try to relate to her. It's great when the person you like begins to notice similarities between you and them, in both of your interests and personalities.
Also, when you get knocked down a notch after risking something, just keep on chuggin'. It's never worth it to forget what you've attempted.
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The little train that could didn't get so much girl train booty because he said he couldn't.
Oh, I'm sorry, I mean girl train caboose.
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In my experience, I always showed the girl who I was. That is the most vital thing for me to remember. I'm not sure I agree with the advice about writing down things she likes. When I am trying to develop a relationship, I ask the girl things about her. I try to relate to her. It's great when the person you like begins to notice similarities between you and them, in both of your interests and personalities.
Also, when you get knocked down a notch after risking something, just keep on chuggin'. It's never worth it to forget what you've attempted.
Well said. >_> I'll remember what you said.
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Ya. And nice meter Damen. I might need to save that..lol
But seriously, take it slow. If you think you might actually have a future, then you have all the time in the world.
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In my experience, I always showed the girl who I was. That is the most vital thing for me to remember. I'm not sure I agree with the advice about writing down things she likes. When I am trying to develop a relationship, I ask the girl things about her. I try to relate to her. It's great when the person you like begins to notice similarities between you and them, in both of your interests and personalities.
Also, when you get knocked down a notch after risking something, just keep on chuggin'. It's never worth it to forget what you've attempted.
Well said. >_> I'll remember what you said.
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Her best friend is very pretty too, and I use to have feelings for her. I'm good friends with her now, and I think I still have the slightest ping of attraction for her.
From now on...I'm giving them all fictional names.
Girl I Like: Ashley.
Girl I used to like: Sabrina.
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Her best friend is very pretty too, and I use to have feelings for her. I'm good friends with her now, and I think I still have the slightest ping of attraction for her.
From now on...I'm giving them all fictional names.
Girl I Like: Ashley.
Girl I used to like: Sabrina.
What happened to not naming them out loud?
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Her best friend is very pretty too, and I use to have feelings for her. I'm good friends with her now, and I think I still have the slightest ping of attraction for her.
From now on...I'm giving them all fictional names.
Girl I Like: Ashley.
Girl I used to like: Sabrina.
What happened to not naming them out loud?
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Her best friend is very pretty too, and I use to have feelings for her. I'm good friends with her now, and I think I still have the slightest ping of attraction for her.
From now on...I'm giving them all fictional names.
Girl I Like: Ashley.
Girl I used to like: Sabrina.
What happened to not naming them out loud?
That changed when he gave them FICTIONAL names, silly goose.
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Her best friend is very pretty too, and I use to have feelings for her. I'm good friends with her now, and I think I still have the slightest ping of attraction for her.
From now on...I'm giving them all fictional names.
Girl I Like: Ashley.
Girl I used to like: Sabrina.
What happened to not naming them out loud?
That changed when he gave them FICTIONAL names, silly goose.
Geese motherfucker.
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Now, back to the serious topic...
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Yes, back indeed. I found I do my best flirting with friends, people who I have no sexual tension with at all. It's easier to be free and laidback.
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I agree. I can flirt with Sabrina easily...but Ashley, not so much...
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I took down the pics and threatening comments.