Unless you've been raped I don't really see what that has to do with you staying a virgin. It's not like a rapist is going to stop and ask "oh wait, are you a virgin?" and leave you alone if you are. So not really sure where that argument comes from. I think its great to have the self control and discipline to stay a virgin until marriage. I just think its very hard to make that statement when you are 14 or 15 years old. People change so much. Personally, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We love each other, will end up getting married some day, so I didn't see the point of waiting for a piece of paper to tell us that we love each other enough to demonstrate that. And I have never once regretted it. Sex is amazing. And what is the average age of the alliance? Like 16 or something? You all should still be virgins. I would be interested to do this survey again in like 2 years and see just how many of you still are.
in all reality the whole being raped has nothing to do with me being a virgin, it's just a fact i wanted to state because my friend used to be a virgin until the raped happened... i guess i was just counting him in the question