I'd post some Glee video but then you'd all kill  me.

Uh, thanks for the offer but no thanks? I don't write professionally  and  neither do I have any interest in doing so. I write for myself.

Also congratulations on the column offer.

So she doesn't like video games yet wants to write for them? It is kinda hard to write a good story line for video games if you don't enjoy them or have a good understanding of your intended audience. >_>

Croix.

Quote from: Mia on February 17, 2012, 09:19:05 pm

Girls always give looks and then you're meant to interpret them. >_<

You know it's funny.  The only time a girl/woman ever shuts up is when they actually could say something meaningful.  Instead, they choose that time to play a fucking guessing game, and then act surprised when we have no clue what the hell your problem is.  No wonder you are all depressed all the time.

Guys aren't exactly easy either. I prefer to be blunt but it is society playing role types against us here. Women's brains are different than males' and we think differently. Problem is we also interact differently due to how society raised us. Males are supposed to be tough and not express any emotions. Girls are supposedly over emotional. However, girls tend not to say what they mean or they learn to use it to manipulate people into getting what they want. This is typical girl  back stab as they say. Say one thing but mean another.

Truth is: humans are fucking complicated. Communication is fucking complicated. You can communicate something by NOT communicating. Sometimes you can overcommunicate, sometimes you don't communicate enough. Throw in the fact we all grow up with different background, subcultures and we all are unique beings with different perspectives on  the world and how we interpret it. Of course we're all arrogant so we assume everyone else sees the world as we do until we realize that isn't true. So we're not even always speaking the same communication language. >_> Then throw in the fact that when MALES think they're sending a signal that is "obvious" they aren't always. Same for females though.

So at the end of the day: if you want to tell someone something, SAY IT. And males have an issue with not always realizing what emotions drive their actions, though females can have this issue too, it is normally for males because society teaches males to be hardasses and not to give a damn about anything. That to do so is to be "weak".

Yet females are emotional types so emotions are more the way they're used to communicating. So to sum it up: people are fucking complicated. If you think a person is worth their crap, then make sure you actually put time and effort  into it and try to keep communicating.  Because if there is a miscommunication, it is always both people's faults. Takes two people to mess up.

And most of all, guys are just as stupid as girls are. We're just all stupid in different ways when it comes to communication.

Or maybe we're just meant to taunt you with the fact we have females.

I personally like a few of Taylor's songs but for the most part I am not a fan of her. Mostly due to the fact that I think she is overrated. Her voice is good, I liked "Back to December" but her songs are repetitive after a certain point. I also am not a fan of the whole writing songs and having media hypothesize on who it was written about. Her songs are mostly about broken hearts and or fairy tales.

On her looks, I am not sure why she is considered hot. If you just took her head, she is pretty but the rest of her, she is basically so twiggy I am surprised she isn't dead yet from malnourishment.

Girls always give looks and then you're meant to interpret them. >_<

How many people will be at the 21st?

One of my friends got given a scrap book with photos of his life in there and every at the party wrote something in it for him. It ended up being a big book because there was over 100 people there. So if it's a small party, the scrap book might seem a little dull. I think his sister made it for him, but there were not drawings, just loads of pictures glued on pages with decorations around them.

Only my friend and myself are going. I think I want to give the scrapbook and leave it mostly empty for her to fill in herself. I can make quite a few poems myself and decorations and well wishes. I'd rather leave more room for her to do something with it than fill it up with things she might not actually like if that makes sense.

Yeah I know this is a weird place to ask but I am asking everywhere I can. I figure the more ideas I can access, the better chance I have of considering something I might not have thought of otherwise. So basically here is the gist: me broke college student but ability to write poems, make music videos, I could probably even film something to music.

Suggestions that I am looking for - if anyone knows anything about scrapbooking, what is the best way to go about it? Leave pages for her to fill in? I am trying to cheer her up since life is pretty down on her lately. I am a terrible drawer, so I was thinking copying and pasting things, then printing it out. I also have a scanner, can stalk her Facebook. I can't get access to her childhood photos. But since it is to cheer her up, I was thinking more of poems, photos of her. Then maybe leave the rest for her to scrapbook on her own? Thoughts?

 I was thinking of making a bracelet but that doesn't really seem special plus they break easily if made by hand. Usually too fragile to make. Plus I could end up making it too big (she is quite twiggy

Another thing I was thinking of maybe my friend and I would practice performing a music skit to Lean On Me or Love in Any Language, a good friendship song. As I said, it is supposed to be about her and not the baby.

Also thoughts on whether bringing frozen pizzas or cooking tacos or something beforehand would be better? It is for her 21st birthday (of course she is pregnant, so it is not like she can drink XD). I am not sure how to make it overly special since obviously there is not going to be any alcohol involved here given she is pregnant.

And yes you may be silly

Heh, Valentine's Day can be either a terrible day or a good day. Depends on how you look at it honestly. I use it as a day to remind all my friends I care about them. It doesn't have to be about a significant other, it can just be about caring about someone. Maybe that is not the crummy garbage you want to hear but with the world so negative, it is rare for someone to hear they're appreciated and we often take our friends for granted.

Also I hate how Valentine's Day is overcommercialized and all about chocolates and etc. It is not what it truly should be about likewise, you shouldn't just tell someone you care about them on Valentine's Day.