A little more about her and myself.

[Damen]

Get to know her better.

Right now we're...



Who are you?|Acquaintance|Kinda-Sorta Friends|Friends|Buddies|Best Friend|Couple

[wethepeople]

Middle is always good, cause there's a lot of ground to go either way. Seriously, just try and get to know her. Don't go out of your way, but talk to her, try and get an MSN/AIM, etc. Little things equal very big things.

[Damen]

I agree


I can't get over how beautiful she looks...especially in those pictures

[wethepeople]

Yup. @_@ Thats another reason to go after her. However, as I can almost guarantee you are, I prefer personality over looks.

[Damen]

Of course.

[wethepeople]

But still, looks do help. Girl I like is... freaking hot. >_> Which doesn't help in some ways.

[IronSoldier820]

If you don't want people saying her name, then why would you post a topic about her? I understand anonymousness and such, but isn't this a backwards way of doing it?

[Damen]

Heh.

Hot...in my opinion, is a derogatory term for her.

So, how's your relationship troubles?

[Damen]

If you don't want people saying her name, then why would you post a topic about her? I understand anonymousness and such, but isn't this a backwards way of doing it?

I don't want someone to post her name because I do not want someone to begin to harass her, and I know some users on here will do it. I made a topic about her because I feel the need to talk about her, for some reason.

[wethepeople]

Actually, I use the term hot to my own tastes. Hot, to me, is a cute, nice, and good looking. Not 90 pounds, blonde and heavyset. Blehk.

I'm probably on the second rung in your meter you made. I've known her for a long time, but we don't talk all that much. When we do though its normal, non forced. I just don't talk to her much. She has no AIM or MSN or email, and that doesn't help.

[Damen]

I has no AIM or MSN or email

fix'd



Well, I can tell you some advice but everything I can tell you you've already told me. >.>

[wethepeople]

Neither does she. >_> Fixed.

I know advice, but I'm just shy and think about the negatives too much. I could just ask her to talk sometime or hang out, and I'm 70% sure she'd say yes, but I'm too shy.

[Commisar Gaunt]

I'm exactly the same way... I'm a pretty shy person, and I don't exactly think positive.  The only thing people like us have to do is to get over that fact, and just go for it!


Trust me, it might be tough or a bit awkward to ask to hang out or something like that, but there are def plusses to just going for it:

A ) If she likes you, she'll think that you being nervous is adorable
B ) If she likes you, she'll say yes and everyone and their mother will be happy.  Or just you two.  Because you're hanging out. Together.
C ) A nice confidence booster


Just believe in yourself!

[Flask]

In my experience, I always showed the girl who I was. That is the most vital thing for me to remember. I'm not sure I agree with the advice about writing down things she likes. When I am trying to develop a relationship, I ask the girl things about her. I try to relate to her. It's great when the person you like begins to notice similarities between you and them, in both of your interests and personalities.

Also, when you get knocked down a notch after risking something, just keep on chuggin'. It's never worth it to forget what you've attempted.

[Commisar Gaunt]

The little train that could didn't get so much girl train booty because he said he couldn't.  



Oh, I'm sorry, I mean girl train caboose.

[wethepeople]

In my experience, I always showed the girl who I was. That is the most vital thing for me to remember. I'm not sure I agree with the advice about writing down things she likes. When I am trying to develop a relationship, I ask the girl things about her. I try to relate to her. It's great when the person you like begins to notice similarities between you and them, in both of your interests and personalities.

Also, when you get knocked down a notch after risking something, just keep on chuggin'. It's never worth it to forget what you've attempted.

Well said. >_> I'll remember what you said.

[Grand Poobah Marx]

Ya.  And nice meter Damen.  I might need to save that..lol

But seriously, take it slow.  If you think you might actually have a future, then you have all the time in the world.

[Flask]

In my experience, I always showed the girl who I was. That is the most vital thing for me to remember. I'm not sure I agree with the advice about writing down things she likes. When I am trying to develop a relationship, I ask the girl things about her. I try to relate to her. It's great when the person you like begins to notice similarities between you and them, in both of your interests and personalities.

Also, when you get knocked down a notch after risking something, just keep on chuggin'. It's never worth it to forget what you've attempted.

Well said. >_> I'll remember what you said.

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[wethepeople]

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[master31347]

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