Blah blah blah, Vector wants to get laid but doesn't have self-confidence.
Cocks
And something about Grammar Nazis.
The trick to picking up woman is simple, and you're on the right track... However, you sound like you're afraid to get your dick wet. Fear not, I have advice!
(It's a simple diagram too!)
[Friend Zone --- Get Laid Zone --- Prick Zone]
You're somewhere in the Friend Zone, if you don't act fast she'll use you as a shoulder tool; to cry on. If you totally avoid her, you'll get in the Prick Zone, also not cool. The trick to the Get Laid Zone consists of two things:
1. Being always too busy for her but making it look like she's very important with the little time you have.
2. Sliding: in effect starting a conversation at point 'a', then moving to comfort zone - point 'b', and finishing somewhere you can fall asleep, point 'c'.
Just do what you're doing right now except meet up with her somewhere, take her out of the comfort zone, make several moves, and if it's timed right, take her home. If you meet up with her in a social activity consisting of several of her friends, tease her slightly (nothing offensive) and show more interest in one of her friends, this will develop your raport with the group, and also make you more desirable to her. Try and act too busy for her and you'll get the same effect. Don't make your presence there be taken for granted. If timed right, ask her if she wants to leave with you for a coffee/trip to the store. Coffee is an instant excuse to ditch the party, trip to the store is the plea of the case where you separate if you can't persuade her (just walk her back to where ever you came from). To separate make excuse that someone else is going somewhere else and you promised you'd be there, best example is using a friend to txt you and bail you out.
The plea for the case should be simple, feel her out about how she's feeling about the party, if she's tired or not, how she plans on getting home, all that good stuff. Most important tool is delay too, if you don't make it too obvious... Just yap yap yap yap yap and be funny.
Don't forget to yap about positive things. Don't talk about ex's, don't talk about sex, and don't talk about her friends (she's already jealous of them). Talk about fun plans you have, nothing nerdy, and be generally positive... Can't fail.
You can bag this kitten no problem if you yap about happy stuff. That's all I do to be honest, and I'm not a pretty nigga (but my mom think I'm handsome).